There are two Toastmasters International Pathway speech projects whose main goal is to help a speaker become more aware of, and to effectively use, the power of body language in their presentations.
These are:
Level One - Mastering Fundamentals - Project 3 - Introduction to Vocal Variety and Body Language
Level Two - Learning Your Style - Project 5 - Effective Body Language
Obviously, some speech topics have more potential than others when it comes to
deciding what you’ll talk about to fulfil the project’s purpose.
What are they? And how do you choose the right one?
Body language is defined by the Oxford Dictionary as the conscious and unconscious movements and postures by which
attitudes and feelings are communicated.
Therefore, the very
best speech topic you could choose is one that you are genuinely and sincerely interested in, even passionately so. The more feeling you
have, the easier it will be to work on drawing out, refining, and
amplifying your body language to enhance the delivery of your
speech.
Choose a personal story for the project
Personal stories are a great starting point. We can all recall events that are
indelibly etched in our minds. We will always remember the sight, the
sounds, maybe a smell, the feelings wrapping them around, who was
there, the words that were spoken... The before and, the after.
Because what we’re
sharing is meaningful to us, the gestures, the body language, we use
as we retell the story will be natural: without conscious orchestration. This automatically makes the delivery authentic because our words and our actions are in harmony with each other.
The task is to take what we are already doing and refine it.
Once upon a time time...
The majority of these story ideas belong to our youth.
How I
learned to ride a bike
My first day at
school
Family
celebrations: birthdays, Christmas or its equivalent...
The arrival of
a baby sister or brother and what it meant
Sibling
rivalry: the good, the bad and the ugly
My favorite
childhood foods
Things I
learned I could get away with as a child
The object
(toy, book, piece of clothing or sports gear...) I most valued and
why
My idol or hero as a child or young person
How I first learned
about death
My first
friendship
My favorite
childhood fantasy
The imaginary
monsters that waited in the shadows to get me
Who, and what,
I wanted to become when I grew up
My favorite
hobby or sport as a young person
The place I
felt safest as a child
My favorite
places to visit as a young person
The rooms,
streets... I remember most clearly
When I was a
child I always wondered about..., or was puzzled by...?
My earliest
memories
Story suggestions from our grown up adult lives
Firsts are often frequently and vividly remembered experiences that could
be become the basis of a speech.
The first time
I realized I was completely out of my depth
The first time
I felt really proud of myself
The first time
I knew I was liked/loved for being exactly who I was
The first time
I saw my new-born child
My first real
home
The first time
I realized I was different in some way from the people around me
The first time
I went to hospital
The first time
I heard...{name of band playing, name of person speaking, singing,
laughing, crying, shouting, or name of instrument: guitar, piano,
drums, saxophone... etc.} I knew that...
The first time
I was completely lost for words
The first time
I questioned the rights and wrongs of a situation
The first time
I felt betrayed by someone I had looked up to
The first time
I was publicly acknowledged for doing something well
The first time
I realized how fortunate or lucky I was to be me
Lessons from life
Slices of personal truth served with a side of humor and
grace on a bed of well seasoned story telling skills! ☺
Use your own experiences to show as well as tell what you have
learned.
How I recovered
from knowing I was not the most physically beautiful person in the room
What I’ve
learned through years of people watching
How the body
language for friendliness is universal – eg. a smile goes a long
way
The truth
behind power posing: how to, why to and when to
How I learned
to recognize fear in myself, and challenge it
Body language
gestures that do not translate well across cultures and cause misunderstandings
How to tell
when your child is lying and what to do about it
How becoming
aware of our habitual unconscious gestures and what they
convey is empowering
The most
powerful words I know: Yes, no, mother, father, love, money...
My most
embarrassing experience
How to tell who
is the most well-regarded or influential person in a group
The top
tell-tale signs of anger that would be helpful for people to
recognize before it was too late
What does a
feeling look like? Learning to read and communicate with non-verbal
people
Does fake it
until you make it really work?
How I learned I
was not good at pretending to be someone I’m not
How I learned I
was going to recover from having my heart broken despite the pain
How our
habitual body language, (how we walk, stand, sit, use our faces...),
impacts on our mental and physical health
How seeing
yourself giving a presentation on video is challenging but really
helpful
That the best
things in life truly are free
The one that
got away: the job, relationship, fish...
Toastmasters vocal variety and body language projects
*In 2021 Toastmasters altered several Pathway projects. An introduction to vocal variety and body language became the third project of four in Level One: Mastering Fundamentals.
In Level Two: Learning Your Style, the project 'Effective Body Language' deepens the foundation work done in Level One, while vocal variety is revisited in Level Three: Increasing Knowledge.
Prior to the introduction of Pathways working with body language was the fifth project of ten required for the Competent Communicator award. It was called: Your Body Speaks.
Teach yourself body language: becoming aware of and working with our habitual unconscious body language and gestures to increase the effectiveness of our speech delivery
Four themed sets of 20 table topic questions: Christmas, music, life-lessons and thought-provoking topic ideas. There's a printable for each set, plus an overview of table topics: its benefit, how a Toastmasters table topics session is run, what makes a good topic, the value of feedback, and more.
Master your icebreaker for Toastmasters: a thorough step by guide, with examples, going from selecting a topic, writing and rehearsing, through to delivery. With an example icebreaker speech.
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